Thursday, November 01, 2007

Why Do Men and Women Need Each Other?

Short Note:
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Disclaimer: All opinions expressed here are strictly of Nicolekiss, any offence caused by this entry does not reflect that of HUGO Fragrances.


There are some funny, sad, serious, lame and even comments that made me wonder the reason I am single today. So hard to decide. *squint eyes* But I have taken the stories of these winners for the 29th October giveaways, they are Vaveh and Andrew Leong. Congratulations guys!!


We hate them, we love them. We simply can’t live without them.

me and kenny with HUGO


Why do men play such a huge role in our lives, in nature, why do they even need to exist?

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I see a Tigon coming…


Not solely for reproduction purposes, though that does serve a very important purpose to maintain nature equilibrium among the human species, this can be perceived from a biological point of view.

Whereas from a philosophical point of view, and this is my personal opinion, that everything co-exist; like Ying and Yang,

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Like black and white, good and evil, chocolates and apple. Since the dawn of Adam and Eve, the world, human and all living beings, live side by side; contradicting each other, but keeping a balance so that the world does not corrupt.

Men, are like the devils (when a lady say you are, you are, so shut up); they lurk beneath our paradise (yea we girls live in happy-land with pretty manicures and unicorns prancing around), keeping our harmony at stake anytime.

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And we hate them; we despise them to the core. If only heaven allow we would want to strangle them and wring them dry alive.

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(not all the time, just most of the time, especially when they don’t lift their toilet seats)

And according to Kenny, it’s a mutual feeling shared between males and females.

But alas, angels keep falling for the devils; because devils have charismas that are almost irresistible to us, like a poison, or drug. We’re hook onto it and we can’t live without it, if you force-snatch it away from us, we will wither and die; like a fallen angel with broken wings,

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dropping hard onto solid ground of what we called, reality.

No, we like our fantasy land, that’s why we’re angels. And devils keep us there, with their voodoos and hocus-pocus. Normally, scientists prefer to call this, LOVE.

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Life itself is a big contradiction. But hey, admit it, without guys, life is so much less interesting.

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What do you think? Comment (with email) and share with us your opinion. You never know, you might be the lucky one to bring home yet another HUGO XY EDT 100ml for him and HUGO XX EDT 100ml for her this week. Winners’ announcement will be on 5th November (Monday). HUGO is being generous lately.



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“Till death do us part”

59 comments:

  1. we need man to do all the hard work (housework) so we angels can keep our finger beautifully manicured, and so we dun grow big chunky ugly muscle on our arms.
    they need to be around to support us, emotionally and financially (so we can splurge all our pay, while they pay for the installments).
    we need them to be there, and tell us daily we are the most beautiful woman on earth.
    we need them to carry us and tell us we are lighter by the day, so we can eat more.
    we need them to be there to act stupid so we appear smart.
    but most importantly, we complete them. so they say, if you cant fight devil, u join them :)

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  2. Because Eve ate an apple that not supposed to eat. But nowadays, the trend has slightly changes - men need men and women need women. They no longer need each other to survive anymore.

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  4. Without men, women are like one and only boring species (or should i correct it as "specy") on the planet. It's all fair enough. Men complete women and the other way round.

    Without men, there is no chance women gone into wrong toilet and then the laughters amongst the women.

    Without men, there is no need of condoms, therefore, disappearance of "yellow jokes" and any jokes related to condoms.

    Without men, traffic will be at its worst. There will be so many lost souls on the road frantically turning the map pages.

    Without men, women have none to pamper them.

    Therefore, men are so much important that women couldn't live without them.


    hl_hl80@yahoo.com (helen)

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  5. It sure is engraved deeply in our human instinct not to be extinct, hence the reproduction need.

    That basically, is all there is.

    There rest on warmth, protection, how we love each other's companion,etc etc (every abstract emotional need) are part of our human's high level need package

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  6. U sound like you are so against men, even to have them called devil to kill them bcos u think you are an angel?

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  7. This is a modern age! I have no problem with indepentant ladies. In fact I respect them! BTW I like the pic of tiger pokeing a lionese! Very nice pic! Look deeper got meaning wan! He! He!
    Have a nice day!

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  8. why do men and women need each other?

    > The loving sensation after a rough day and someone to pick u up when you're down

    What more do you need after a tough day at work? all u want is to go home and rest in the first warmth hug of your loved one. How many of us do that? most of us now just go home and start rambling about how bad your job is...instead, go to your lover, hug them rest in them and say "i've missed you so much the thought of coming home to your comfort makes me get through the toughest days"

    > Somewhere decent to cover your eyes when you watch a horror movie

    nothing beats the feeling of having your gf/wife sinking their head in your chest with their hands covering their mouth with a soft muffle..don't u think its better than using their hands to cover their eyes? fingernails might scratch them eyes! hehe

    > someone to cuddle at night, and to wake up looking at him/her the next morning

    I don't know about you guys/girls out there, but i do love to cuddle! the occassional nudge i get when i let go of a snore at night is cute too! cause u wake up, see your partner looking at you, when u peck them on their lips soon after and head back to snooze land..the best part is, u wake up and u feel so bad u disturbed his/her sleep u just lay awake gazing at him/her letting him/her catch a lil more sleep cause u disturbed it with your snore...

    > opinions

    people are generally very easily influenced...having a partner man/woman gives u the best opinion ever for you to make your decisions. Be it career, shopping or selection of food (if u have bad health they will go "don't eat so much that ler, u know your leg will get pains rite..?")

    > someone to share joy with

    having achieved something, u would wanna share it...tell me, what's the point of achieving something if you dont have anyone to jump for joy with or share your success with?

    > satisfy your parents and his/her parents

    oh that's important too :) no explainations needed hehe


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  9. Especially for strong and independent ladies, men are still better...better punching bags. Won't be beaten to pulp in no time and the ladies are less likely to be charged of criminal assault. LOL

    On a serious note, angels don't fall of the sky bcoz of devils. They fell due to accidents in the overcrowded sky. Damn the budget airlines. :D

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  10. Godness it is for sure that women need men, actually just to be precised, women are hungry for men..

    1. To breed
    It is interesting to know that some people with really strong characteristics will claim that without men, they can still have babies via clonning. However,without a cross over of gene coming from the "innocent" sperm of men or "vulnerable" ovule of women, their babies will just look exactly the same to them. So what's the point of having babies??? To get your own replica? Wouldn't it be boring for a lady with an unbalanced breast or a guy with a tiny penis to be able to predict how their babies will look like in future? There will be no more uncertanties and consequential to that further socials tigmatisation might even occur! The flamboyant group of the society is gonna continue stay good-looking and the bad-looking population will just grow bigger and bigger. There will be no chance for Hillary Clinton to have a baby mimic Brad Pitt as she wouldn't have a chance to simply "breed" with Brad!

    2. Sexual sensation
    Sensitive but true enough, without guy, sex will no longer be interesting for women. It changes the whole concept for how sex appears to women, they will no longer be looking forward to male with "strong" body, and they will have no need to try making their own "body figure" captivating.In fact, there will be no need for sex education and condom manufacture, which will further lead to the jeopardy of porn production!Doom day for women,and men.

    3. Environmental impact
    It simply means more rubbish made. Women used to not being able to finish their portion of food and more often than not, men are those who help to finish up the "food" so that it won't be thrown away as rubbish. Plus if men dont exist, I'am sure many women will start trickle down their tears and more tissues will be needed and thrown.Bah, is that how pollution works?

    4. Last but not least, jeopardy of HUGO BOSS perfume business
    Without men, why will people stillw ant to buy HUGO XY? Men and women, XX and XY are meant to be complimenting each other=)

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    As for me, life without women will be a big nono. There will be nobody who tries to act cute in front of me, nobody to share my lame jokes with, and nobody for me to give flowers to=)

    Romance, tenderness, and Hapiness come only when men and women compliment with one another,and that mutualism exist between two creatures who needed one another=)

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  11. What if I say its how we are brought up? We never really question how this world works... We call a person with a dick male and those with boobs female. Something green with a trunk is called a tree... Its education. How we are taught since the day we are born... We are taught to follow the rules and follow the life circle...

    Boys don't like boobs... You show a little boy photos of female with big boobs, all they might think of is milk. Either that or they'll just say "yulk" ! Its only when guys are "educated" by other guys that big boobs are hot and they are supposed to get obsessed with it to be normal. (its gay to not like hot chicks) That's how guys are taught...

    We only feel that we have to and its a must to find the other half because we are told so... Its a "normal" process if we do so... But have you ever thought that if we followed the normal process, life would just be like this. ( born into the world - grow up as a kid - learn things - go to school and stuff more "infos" into your brains - go through every level of education to learn the process of the "natural" circle - graduate - find a job - earn money - find a partner - get married - have kids - have a family - retire - get sickness - DIE!!! ) That's almost a draft of how our how life are since the day we are born. Its just like living in a communist mindset, everyone's the same just that we don't feel it.

    Personally I feel woman likes man is because we are "made" to feel the need of being protected, when the fact is we are hurt and unprotected with them the most. We hypnotised ourselves in believing that man are the goal in our lifes to be able to achieve desired happiness.

    If a person can protect u from everything, give u everything u ever wanted, keep u happy every moment of ur life, any dream is achievable... BUT the person is not a HE and will never be able to give you sex life... Will you accept? I'm sure the answer is of course not... Cos its already deep in our mind that finding the opposite sex is a norm and we'll have to live with it...

    My email address is in ur gmail inbox... Dun wanna leave my email here for everyone to ...... Anyway... there's never an answer in life unless if we want to believe whatever we have been educated to...

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  12. Why do women need men? Cos we get pissed at different things.

    Being out of synch soothes things over. Instead of feeding off each other's emotions and getting more and more worked up, the guy calms, placates, rubs your earlobes and go,"woo-shaaaa"

    And when the guy's favorite soccer team loses, instead of a whole bunch of guys discussing how to gather a mob and setting the other team on fire, the gal with a cold beer in hand sooths and sayangs.

    Sure occasionally the differences create friction instead of smooths it over, but hey, not every system's perfect. Yes?

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  13. Wow! This HUGO advertorial tactic really works. But when I checked out for the perfume at the airport that day, they claimed that they have yet to receive the new HUGO fragrance. It's either this fragrance is so new that it is not in stores yet or simply I searched it at the wrong place. Well I only got time to check out the airport anyway, so that simply can't be helped.

    Now my opinion on women dependence on men. Women don't really need men these days. We are no longer living in the age when women are actually now allowed to go to school and are only needed to wait for a man to pick her up on her wedding day. This is also not those years when the parents get to decide who should marry their children. And also this is not the day when Bill Clinton was running for president instead of his wife. Okay screw that, it's irrelevant. Anyways today we get to see when women have equal rights with men, unknowingly that the women had taken most of the responsibility from men that men in the end will have to depend on their ladies in the future. If I am seeing this right, soon the women rights will be abolished and men demand for their rights back from the women. The next thing we know is that it's considered racist if you call a woman a b***h. Now we don't like that to happen, don't we?

    After all those unrelated babbling, the point that I'm reaching to is that it is alright for women to let them get carried on a man's shoulder. At the same time, it is also alright for a man to accept a woman's need to be self-dependent. For all you know, the ladies are doing better than all the "gentlemen" out there. However there are some egoist guys who are not willing to stoop lower than women. Some of them are just sexist or probably an arrogant jerk. And definitely Kenny is not one of them :) Men can still give the sense of companionship for women while women can give a man a reason to work harder for their happiness. Men do want to be happy, by the way. We too want to have a family, naming babies, cherish them, send them to college and send them off to another man/woman. By then, we are getting old and this is the moment when both man and woman need each other the most - to take care of each other's needs. As for the "egoistic" guys, they need the women to feed the ego, complimenting to Kenny's opinion. I agree with him. We can't be sexist because it is just too racist. We just need to admit to our helplessness and find a shoulder to cry on to. And men is the best choice for the ladies to do that XD

    That is my lame answer. I'm not expecting much but it is my opinion. And Nicole, thanks for dropping by my blog. I was totally happy about it. Hope to hear from you soon.

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  14. women need men for emotional support. because thats what we are, emotional wrecks. especially at THAT time of the month. Men are usually more emotionally stable, they listen, they hear us out.

    Not that your girl friends wouldnt do the same for you, but like i said, EMOTIONALLY STABLE. Most girls would probably WAIL ALONG at how unfair life is and blah blah when guys look at the problem straight on and tries to help you solve it.

    thats the difference between being a male and a female. What more, we always NEED someone to shout at when we're angry or just feel annoyed. And girls are sensitive. So what better way than to let it out on a man?! XD They can be so sweet sometimes and even comfort and apologise to you when you're at the wrong.

    Girls would just defend themselves.

    Men know how to make a woman feel good. Period. XD

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  15. ladies & gentlement, before i proceed let me ask a simple question. would you choose to live with same thing around you or do you prefer to stay with different lifestyle? having to eat the same food and taste everyday is boring right?

    guys need girls or vice versa. why?

    -love is so powerful that we can't ignore it or control it at all. if you said i'm wrong that means you haven't found your 1 yet. i can't imagine staying in this world with all the guys around me. i totally agreed with the ying yang concept. try close your eyes and imagine your surrounding are those same sex as you! 1 world to express: BORING!

    -although kenny said technology solve most of the thing but just compare a simple livestyle problem i'll state here. DO YOUR PETS DOES WHAT MAN COULD GIVE? kiss? care? i think u care IT but IT doesn't!

    -it's true from kenny that girls are well educated and have fix income recently but.... cash really doesn't mean everything! try and ask those rich people out there which don't owned any care by someone they wish. feel nice? i think they rather burn all their cash :)

    -nicole state that why women needed men now are for "entertainment purposes"? the "entertainment" is profound for me...haha...but i'm sure that without "entertainment" guys will feel dull. guys! do you like girls who bully you? if that bully doesn't really hurt i think most of the guy enjoy it.

    overall, everything exist for its own reason. life is just like a circle and we human do need each other! thank you.

    splendid07@yahoo.com

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  16. rose6580@yahoo.com1/11/07 5:32 PM

    You can't live with them. You can't live without them.

    This is what I call 'Ingrown Nails Syndrome'.

    When they are around us too much, we just can't stand their antiques and start nagging till we'd rather not see them at all.

    When they dissappear, we start wondering where they are and what they are doing with whom.

    When they call us to report on what they've been up to, we find them irritating and disruptive.

    When they stop calling, we wonder why they never called like they always do.

    Bottom line, we are all sensitive creatures. We need you to be there for us like how you need us to be there for you.

    We need your shoulders to cry on just as much as you like us to lean on you for support.

    We need to be loved and cuddled the same way you need to be loved and cuddled too.

    We love to smell you after your shower as much as you like to bury your face onto our heads to smell our hair.

    We nag you because we care and regardless of what you say, you like it when we don't leave u alone.

    No matter how much we fight, we wanna kiss and make up and go to sleep feeling blessed that we still have each other no matter what happens.

    We may not wanna admit it, but theres more to needing each other than sex. What is sex without love?

    No matter how much more capable and independent women are these days compared to before, we are still human.

    Yes, money can solve many things, but not everything. Money can't buy us real love and affection.

    We need you; As much as you need us; Ingrown or not. ;)

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  17. whisperer said...
    On a serious note, angels don't fall of the sky bcoz of devils. They fell due to accidents in the overcrowded sky. Damn the budget airlines. :D

    WTF. what kind of comments is this?
    whisperer, u r very shallow..!!

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  18. Now first things first, I agree that men are like.. what you said, I even believe that if I add the 'wo' into men, it'll still be correct.

    Come to think of it, women are like little babies that needs attention, care, soothing words, hugs, at whatnot at times.

    Anyway, when you put the picture of Jennifer Love Hewitt there, you lost me, and I'm pretty sure u lost all the other guys at that point too. =)

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  19. anoneh, your comment is very deep. Aren't you impressed with yourself? Taking potshots won't help your grievances...grow some brain will :D

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  20. MEN...
    - drive women crazy (literally)
    - want to watch football
    - never (hardly) phone
    - don't like shopping (I find that a crime)
    - can't do more than one thing at a time
    - don't do the washing up (that's why guys desperately NEED women)
    - forget birthdays (and every other important dates)
    - think they're always right (the ego: If MEN had PERIODS, they'd brag about the SIZE of their TAMPONS)
    - have huge ego (similar to earlier said point)
    - think they can drive better
    - are never on time (this is a 50-50 thing)

    Let's just face it, we can't live with them... but we can't live without them.

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    Let's cut the sexist comments. I do feel that women do need men. Only because women may not be as emotionally stable as men. But somehow, men these days are learning to cry and need women's shoulders.

    This may be the modern age, where women are a lot more independent compared to the days of our ancestors and grandparents. And I find that a blessing. These days, there are a growing number of women leaders in different countries... that does show that women don't need men.

    I feel we do. As a female, life just wouldn't be the same. We need our men. We need our father figure, our brothers, and our husbands.

    And men need their mums, sisters and wife.

    At the end of the day, I'd say men need women just as much as women need men!

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  21. you talk crap sometimes lol

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  22. adui25@hotmail.com1/11/07 8:56 PM

    men men men. the question always exist eh? some needs men and some don't need them. by some, i mean all genre of gender ;P we hate them but we love them. funny hate-love relationship. i have this sms-unfriendly guy. to be more exact, lets take few instances will we?

    Take 1

    girl : hey YYYYY!! just now bla bla bla bla bla bla!! Oh my!! did you bla bla bla bla bla?!? its damn funny wei!!

    guy : ok.

    Take 2

    girl : YYYYY!! did you know that pot pot pot pot pot pot pot?!?! serious!! i just pet pet pet pet pet pet pet!! shock of my life!!!

    guy : ok.

    okay. maybe you can say he has nothing to say. but sometimes, he goes to THIS extend.

    Take 3

    girl : hey YYYYY. you going not later? if yes what time ler?

    guy : ok.

    i rest my case for that. but that doesn't mean i am denying that some guys are not sweet at all. some guys can be so sweet that he makes you feel sugar high. there was once i watched this chinese movie where this father was teaching his son about women. he told his son that women are hard to fix. there are rare ones, medium and well done. the rare ones are those who doesn't fight back and 101% sweet + loving towards you. the medium ones are 50-50. they will snap at you if you forgets the marriage day or the day you met her or anything but super loving if you buy her flowers, chocolates or so. the well done ones, your mom explains it all. after listening to all this, the son told his dad how come mom said the same thing about men to me yesterday?

    this proves that, men and women needs each other. say you don't need one but you will end up with one.

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  23. Overall the comments; here tickle me to the end....;P

    Let me voice my opinions on what is this berserking brain now:

    1. Men and women need each other; if not how do we come out as by In Vitro Process in the future. If they don't need sex anymore. Unless, there is a sperm bank for the male species to keep their sperm for the regeneration of the human production.In the span of maybe 100 years to come.

    2.Neither men and women can live without each other, also where do Adam and Eve come into the picture in first place when God told them not to bite the apple?

    3.Both Kennysia.com and Nicolekiss do have their points which are quite true. Unless, YOU have found your compatible MATCH then the rest is history.

    4.Unless both are HOMOsexuals then I have no comment on these issues.

    5.Being a single, also have the advantages but sometimes we still need someone to lean on to, cry and voice our deep inside problems to the ONLY ONE YOU TRUST who stays TRUE to you. No matter for BETTER or for WORST. No matter for POORER or RICHER.

    6.Experiences from both different individuals and genders do bring out the WORST and the BEST of both genders. Including family upbringing and peer influences.

    7.Speaking out on behalf of singles and 'pairs' and 'married', these are merely opinons. These definitions :

    a. singles : always wishing someone whom you can cuddle with, hug and also share with.

    b. 'pairs': in the process getting to know each other individuality in terms of personalities, temperaments,etc....endless

    c. 'married' : this one need to consult your own parents how do they manage us and how we come about from them. without them how do we arrive here in the first place. both parties whose individualities in short 'blending' with each other for the rest of the life.....Difficult to explain on this one. Too many different opinions by different people.

    8.Last but not least, men and women are the nature that make us who we are as women and men in the first place. Men look to their 'love' : beauty lies on the eye of the beholder. Women look at their 'love' : their 'half' know who they really are whom they can lean on and also 'hero'.

    Please......these are just merely opinions....

    mgg_chang@yahoo.com

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  24. Ever learn about lock and key mechanism? Hehe In biology... anyways just looked obscene... tea bagging it? ;) ok enough subtleties.

    Of course men and women need each other. That's why nothing would ever do, it's that physical closeness, touch that beats everything! Like ayo technology... if u've heard the JT and 50 cent song... Sick of technology. I mean if you want a girl who can be 'downloaded' then what's the use. ALL OUT FOR PHYSICAL TOGETHERNESS!!!

    Like you said,... or probably read somewhere maybe Kenny's blog... Adam and Eve, David and Victoria Beckham, Ying and Yang.... it's all a damn balance. It's symmetry! No matter how good looking two guys you put together in a picture, it won't look as nice as a guy and a girl. It's like the perfect balance and one cannot exist without the other. That's why homosapiens were created to procreate only by way of two of the opposite sex to 'procreate and inhabitat' (definition of marriage :S:S) It won't be complete without the other.

    Want to know another way to proof this? Ever remembered ur first crush? However silly it was? Unless it was of the same sex, i have nothing to say... but... if it was of the opposite sex, ask yourself what motivated u there.


    It is this undescribable attraction and feeling that gives you the drive to desire physical closeness!!! It's just that beautiful formula. We were programmed this way, so might as well enjoy it!

    caranthir27@gmail.com

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  25. v need guys :

    1. for a warm nice cuddle. imagine cuddling a woman with muscles. yuck~

    2. for our eyes so scan the party groud for hot guys.

    3. for SOS call when our car decided to pull on some attitude. then v can have the guys to fix and get dirty and sweaty rather than us.

    4. for them to make us feel safe and protected.

    5. for them to irritated us but yet make us laugh

    6.for them to give us cash. yes i kno alot of woman nowadays are having good career but cash from guys are meant to b spent without much of a heartache and purse ache.

    7. for us to fall in love. love is such wonderful thing to do with a guy. no offense but i prefer falling in love with guys.(XY)

    8. for beautiful sex made for God in the contex of marrige.

    babalian_gal@hotmail.com

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  26. i do belief God created both adam and eve together for his very own reason.
    Wat kenny have mentioned is true tat women nowdays are very much self-suffiecent and dun really rely much on guys anymore however they still some how need guy in their life in a long run!

    women need guy simply to enjoy the beauty of love!!!
    love is the key element tat bring joy n spices to our lives.on top of tat love fill up the loneliness of our hearts with each other companionship.
    Therefore, to me both men n women live dependently on each other!!

    beautylover_qb@hotmail.com

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  27. Wow...a lot of comments but I don't really agree with all. Guys have their needs and so do gals. Why all the hassle? Let's stick with God gave us two ends to balance everything out. As you said Nicole,there is Ying,there is most definitely Yang. No Ying,balance collapses and vice versa if there is no Yang.

    Even in this world,even with the current changes,may it be guys or girls,we most definitely need each other. We may have homosexuals and that is not an uncommon thing(though its still a lil shocker in Malaysia)as homosexuality has been around since ancient times. C'mon,don't tell me there are none. Because of discrimination against homo's,they keep their mouth's shut and suffer.

    I don't agree that men are devils though,cause girls are too in this time and age.I've met bad enough girls to boot and they are sometimes(note,I said SOMETIMES)even worse than men.Love was not named by scientists. Scientists prefer the term,hormonal attraction or the rush of hormones.

    In my opinion,no matter in what type of relationship,both sexes need each other to balance things out(nice Pepsi logo though)may it be serious undertakings or to just basically life itself.Missing either one makes life dull.

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    shuinryu@gmail.com

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  28. why do men and women need each other?
    the entry reminds me of one of my own quite a while ago.

    My perception about guys

    Some people have this perception that guys are like oxygen.

    Without it, we can't live our lives properly
    We need them as life support, to ensure that we don't die of suffocation.
    We need them all the time to keep us the way we are.
    Without them, we're like living outta nothing. bla bla bla.

    Well, if you asked me, I'd say that we need guys cause they're more like a drug.
    Drug in a good way or bad depends on the individual.

    When you don't take the drug, you don't seem to have the need for it.
    You don't long for it, you don't have the urge for it.
    Basically, you're perfectly fine without it.

    What I'm saying is that you can live without taking the drug at all.
    You don't feel as though your life depends on it in any particular way.
    If there's no guy, you're okay with not having one and life goes on.

    On the other hand,once you take a small dosage of it, you're doomed. Why? One little sip of the drug and be prepared to be sucked into the world of total distraction and minimum concentration.
    With that little bit of it, you have the urge of wanting more. You're not satisfied with what you've got.

    You just can't live without them anymore. When that guy appears, your whole day will be distracted. Your mind will be somewhere else most of the time and you most definitely cannot concentrate no matter how hard you try to.

    Then it becomes bad.
    Sometimes we can't live with them
    Sometimes we can't live without them. So what do we do about them?

    Women need men to survive. Men are drugs. drugs that we need to survive. Anything more than that is negotiable.

    tracywongtsyeshan@gmail.com

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  29. Beyond biology, I believe it comes down to our psychological dependency on the whole idea of the leader and a supporter. The general stereotype has always been men the leaders, women the supporter. I am not one to agree or disagree with the gender bias; even equal-gendered relationships have the markings of these two distinct roles.

    The fact is, we complement each other. The genders/roles think differently, behave differently, enjoy different pleasures, possess different priorities. Amidst these differences also lies areas of overlap. I'd say its this overlaps that first makes us get along... but the complementary differences are what makes us need each other. We see what we do not have in the other...and it is human nature to usually desire what we do not have.

    We're all just trying to complete ourselves :)

    crazee@gmail.com

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  30. We live in an age where women have earned 100% independence. A vast majority of women would say we don't need them men but its the opposite for men. They happily admit that they do need us 'chicks'.

    But do we? I think we do.

    1.Entertainment
    Yes, you can get sex toys of any color and size now but does it give you the same pleasure? Lol. It doesnt look at you in the eye when you're *ahem* doing it and tell you that he/she loves you.

    2.Blaming it on someone else
    We all need a significant other or a really close friend of an opposite sex to put the blame on every now and then. Women don't blame women for their PMS. :D And men don't complain to their work buddies about other men. Its always "i can't go out because neh...my wife lah!"

    3.To carry on your legacy
    How else would men with their egos carry on their family line? They obviously need women. We carry their child, mother them and sacrifice so much for their child. And for women, as much as we deny it, the best moments in life is to see your own child grow up. If you're unlucky and the father is a *ahem* bastard, at the end of the day, half of the kid is yours. If you argue that thanks to IVF techniques a woman can start a family on their own, you still need a father to explain to your son about their 'parcels'. :D Man to man talk. You can't do it as well as they do.

    And when you're expecting and get all the weird cravings like chocs(!!) for eg, who else but to get ur hubby to drive to the nearest petrol station in the middle of the night for you? :D

    4. And for all the other random stuff
    A male and a female, becoming soul partners...they complete each other. Like you said, ying and yang. But it goes further than that. In all the small matters in life. When a guy doesnt cook/do the laundry, the girl does it. When a girl doesn't dare do smack that lizard or can't reach to change the blown light, the guy does it.

    Above it all, God must have had a reason when he decided only a male AND a female can reproduce.

    We do need each other. We were programmed to feel that way. :)

    sandra.wee@gmail.com

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  31. simply putting it in this way, if woman and man not together,woman+woman=les..man+man=gay
    happilly ever after..thnk u!

    lol, k..
    the real point I'm trying to say is..
    man desires for attention,and will die without it..as Kenny said, ego needs to be satisfied.

    woman desires for a certain care..I have no idea if they will die without it or not..

    but, this attention and care that is needed will only be acceptable if it comes from one of the opposite sex. Feel it!

    yeah.. tats all!!
    best wishes to everyone!

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  32. We do need man. A married couple have the closest relationship in the world. Some may argue that a mother and a child have the closest relationship, but the thing is, mother-child relationships grow apart- children leave the house after they grow up. But a husband and wife only grow closer. They leard new things about each other each passing day. They learn to appreciate each other's company more and more each they. They learn to show affection to each other as time passes.

    The bible too states that man will leave the family and he will be one with his wife. One. Imagine that. You are actually making yourself 'complete' when you say thos vows on the altar. And I dont think there's anything that can be more beautiful than that.

    Having said that, I dont believe we should jump into any relationships and start dating with any guys just to 'complete' ourselves. call me sua ku if you want, but i believe there's more to dating then going out with a guy saying that you love him bla, bla, bla. In simple terms, I dont believe we should pak tor unless we think that the guy is who we want to marry, and that we are actually ready for marriage itself. When I was in high school, I have seen so many of my classmates telling his/her girlfriend/boyfriend how much they love each other. And then they start calling each other lao po/lao gong (OMGoodness, that still disgust me) I just wonder, will they end up marrying each other? If not, why pak tor? Seriously, if you are going to give your heart so easily to random people that you dat, what will you have to give to your future husband/wife?

    Woman need man. And i believe man needs woman. but i dont believe we should jump into a relationship just because of that.

    and that ends my rambling O.o

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  33. Hmm... I agreed that men and women exists like yin and yang - so that the harmony exists with a balance but then again, harmony is overrated. Don't really think that we can actually strike a perfect balance with a men in our life because nothing is perfect. Especially when it comes to love and relationship.

    Men need women, women need men in different aspects - sex, love, pampering, ego, do housework, mow the lawn, fix the car, the pc and etc etc. Which is which, think it yourself :D

    Yeah, it is boring if there is only one gender on earth only. No one to fight with, argue with, play with *ehem*, receive or give pampering, and all those tender loving care. We have co-exist among each other for centuries and since men and women behaves different, think and act differently, hence men and women are like two rocks being rubbed together to create the sparks. You need two to tango like how the saying goes.

    And men being the devils they are, we angels just mercifully love the thrill of playing with fire, love their ticklish horns and their sweet ol' nothing words. And most of the time, we fall for devils like such. The thrills and excitement though can make our wings clipped and fall down hundreds of meters to earth but still, we will go for them no matter how many hundreds of warnings we have heard before. Simply because we need them to feel a complete us.

    In another word, contradiction is what makes the world around us fun. If everything is one way through only, it is not that fun doesn't it?

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  34. -edited-
    v need guys :

    1. for a warm nice cuddle. imagine cuddling a woman with muscles. yuck~

    2. for our eyes so scan the party groud for hot guys.

    3. for SOS call when our car decided to pull on some attitude. then v can have the guys to fix and get dirty and sweaty rather than us.

    4. for them to make us feel safe and protected.

    5. for them to irritated us but yet make us laugh

    6.for them to give us cash. yes i kno alot of woman nowadays are having good career but cash from guys are meant to b spent without much of a heartache and purse ache.

    7. for us to fall in love. love is such wonderful thing to do with a guy. no offense but i prefer falling in love with guys.(XY)

    8. for beautiful sex made BY God in the contex of marrige.

    babalian_gal@hotmail.com

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  35. God created Woman for Man and Man for Woman. To say that women do not need men entirely would not be right. It just defies the balance of mother nature.

    Interesting Fact: Did you know that God Made Eve by using a bone from Adam's body? Just goes to show that Men & Women are linked together deeper than we know.

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  36. I would say that men and women need each other in their lives because they are humans.They have feelings,emotions,egoistics,humbleness and etc..They have the bad sides and the good sides of them..You may think that men are strong,ego and tough.But have u ever think that can they survive under stresses like dat?..No,how strong a person is,they have their soft sides..have u seen a man cry?..I have..when they really cant bear the load,the stress,they will breakdown just like women do..bt they wont show to public,of course..takkan u wan them..'hey,look here..I'm crying'..of course not..they need a caring soul,someone to listen to them,someone to back them up emotionally..which is why they need women..
    Women by nature are a soft hearted species..because they care too much and and their soft-heartedness characteristics..women get hurt easily..how many ladies out there that do not want to be hugged when they get hurt or emotionally down..Women need a strong and tough shoulder to be cried on..and a pair of strong arm to protect them from harm..this is where men came into pictures..
    Men and women are complementary to each other..they help and support each other in their ways..

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  37. # Women need 1 kind of men and not any type of men. women only need men who are trustworthy and put her, the only woman as priority. There's 2 types of men species.

    1) Loyal, caring, family-first men and men who knows what they want.

    2) Indecisive, immature, mind still thinking of going out everynight men.

    # Some men are not even worth the women's love. WHY? Because of girls that came from some chinese country (don't want to mention the name of that Country) and seduced women's husband just because of money and what's worst, the men thought that's true love.

    # Some men abuse their wives, came home late at night drunk and hit the wife, some left their family at home and went out to enjoy themselves.

    # Women nowadays don't need men as much as before, women can earn more money than men, do their house chores, feed themselves and even give birth. In other part of the world, lesbians married lesbians and gays married gays.

    # 6 out of 7 women that I know don't plan to get married and not even in a relationship.

    # 1 of my collegue who is very successful and around her 40s has 4 dogs at her house, she lives alone with the dogs and she told me, "what's a man for, if they break women's heart."

    # Example
    Many men who are married went to that chinese country to do business but in the end, hook up with the woman who has his baby and even threaten to get married. The wife who is uneducated and bringing 3 children are left with nothing except letter from lawyer informing her, her husband wants a divorce. But nowadays, even if men don't travel, women from other countries looking for money will go to the men.

    # With the new technology, women don't need a man(some men are like a timed bomb that is gonna explode anytime) the risk of letting men staying beside them and not sure when they will hurt women.

    # Car broken down, ask workshop or tow truck to fix it,they even come in 24 hours, electric problems, ask for electrician, give birth, go to clinic that provides such service etc.

    # Conclusion, women only need men who are trustworthy and put her, the only woman as priority.

    clairerose82@yahoo.com.au

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  38. I’ve always told myself this : Men are useless. Ugh! I don’t need them. I can do everything on my own. The thing is, I had been hurt by men more than once and that was enough to break my spirit to trust men the way I used to. I even refuse to believe that I am in love with this guy I know. Other than that, I believe that guys would only like girls with gorgeous body. :( Despite these reasons, I know that deep down inside of me, I know that these words, “Gah! Men! Who needs them! I know I don’t.” aren’t entirely the truth. Why else would I still bother to dress up nicely, be conscious of how I look (ensure that I’m not too fat)? After all, I am still a lady (I’m not really a woman yet) who longed to be loved, cared about and adored. eh hehehe, *coughs* actually, I even MADE myself believe that the reason I want to look pretty and stuff is bcos I want to look good for myself not for guys.

    ~Women (or ladies) do need men. Even though, yes, our society has people having relationship between men and men, women and women. Women need men to care for them, to make them feel safe, to accept her for how she is, to put their coat over her shoulders when she’s freezing at night, to hug and comfort them when she’s crying, to stroke her cheeks gently every now and then to show her how much he loves her, to go to the extreme to cheer her up like buying her trip to go to Hawaii even though that’s the money that he saved to buy the latest car that he had been drooling over for years (wonder if they ARE any guy like that. Hmm… ), and oh, the list goes on…

    ~Men need women in almost the same way. I mean, what guy wouldn’t like to have women caring and loving him?! Ask those guys with girlfriends, I’m positive they would answer ‘I feel very lucky and blessed to have someone caring, loving me this much.’ And of cos, men need women so that he would have a place to brag. Only a woman who truly loves her man would be able to endure his constant bragging. I’m actually kinda surprised when I read in Kenny’s blog that guys need girls to feed their ego. I never knew that but come to think of it, he’s right! Lol. No wonder this online guy friend of mine loves it when I praise him.


    Men and women need each other as a place to hang on to, as someone to grow old and enter the gates of heaven with even though maybe they won’t enter those gates together but that doesn’t matter cos they’ve already experienced one of the most wondrous thing in life, like seeing the 7 wonders of the world, except this is even better than seeing the 7 wonders of the world and what else would it be if it isn’t non other than ---- LOVE! =D

    teenyweenygal@yahoo.com

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  39. Yes nicole... i totally agree with you... men are really devils... and without men our lives are definately dull...

    Let me give an example from one of my previous relationships...

    I used to have a bf (lets call him, A) who treats me very nice... he was so nice that if i ask him to sit, he will sit... i ask him to shut up, he will just shut up... yes, i know.. i was being a mean bitch... but its true you know.. they say if u found someone who loves you so much and listens to you very much, you will tend to be over board in that particular relationship and turn bitchy... and then i left my bf A for a new bf B... This bf B of mine was the total opposite of bf A... B is the type that is more dominant... This time around, when he ask me to sit, i will just sit and wouldnt move a bit that kind of relationship... when i knew B, he was a womanizer, a very sweet talker and every women in college definately have their eyes on him... he knows what to do and say to get you fall head over hells with him even though u know it very clearly that he is just playing and using you.. i was chosen to be his victim but then i just couldnt resist playing along as well...

    we became an item just after 3 weeks... that was how fast he got me.. what to do, he really has his charms... I was with him for almost 6 years... My first 3 years with him was hell... Our first year together, he was still womanizing.. wouldnt let me know what he is doing, being so secretive and all... 2nd n 3rd year.. we always fight for small little reason.. he would scold me to the point like no one would ever scold someone like that... and to be honest, my parents also wouldnt treat me like that... when he gets mad, its disaster...he would throw tantrums and there was a few times he broke his cupboard by punching it... i was very afraid of him... i am not allowed to have guy friends or talk to any guy at all.. On our third year, i had to leave to further my studies in Australia... that is when i turned and learned to be more independent as a girl... we had long distance relationship for 2 years... and of course, many fights and quarrels in between.. he was so happy when i finally left for Aust and i was feeling very relieved to finally leave to Aust... Our relationship hit rock bottom when we were on our third year... but i dont understand y we did not break up.... After 2 years of long distance, i was very sick of it... cause im the type that needed someone to be with me shower me with love and attention... not someone who is always giving me problems... But during our 2 years long distance, he began to fall in love with me... He had never cheated on me while i was in aust for that 2 years... he talked about marriage and kids which we have never talked about it before... I had to let him go when i knew he serious... and as i had expected, he goes berzerk when i said i wanted a break up.. threaten me with loads of shit and nonsense...

    But i guess i was wrong for prolonging the relationship until 5 years after... i should have break it up with him when i first went to aust... But i finally broke free from him after 1 year of trying to break up and all the nonsense...

    Now, im a very happy relationship for the first time in my life... cause for the first time in my life, i actually had an equal relationship from my current bf who now loves me as much as i love him... i guess its the karma that i needed after suffering 5 years with B.

    Well, my point of telling you my relationship stories is that.. yes, girls always tend to fall in love with the meanie... and tend to break hearts of nice guys... Like my bf B... when he was a meanie, i was still very much in love with him..totally blinded with love even though he was being a big asshole... when he finally fall in love with me, starting to treat me right, being nice and all... i left him... which i know i've hurt him alot cause he has never fall in love with any of his gfs before considering he has at least 2 dozens of gfs before me... therefore, im the first girl he actually fell in love with... sighh... thats y, being nice brings you nowhere...

    My relationship with B has taught me alot of things... thats y i agree with you nicole, life without a guy is much less interesting... if i had never been with B, i would not have learnt how asshole and how a man would turn 360 degrees when they finally fall in love... and all the mind games B has been playing with me for that 5 years, i wouldnt be as smart as i am today... i would still be a naive innocent girl like before i was with B...

    So, i guess we women and men need each other to educate each other to be more serious in things as you'll learn lots of new stuff in every relationship... Like my love life, by me going through like this, it has definately turned me in an adult and live in reality... im not as naive and innocent as before anymore... and also to make me realise.. love is not only about i love you and you love me only... it involves and requires more than love to make a relationship work and last...

    janesnj@hotmail.com

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  40. Yes nicole... i totally agree with you... men are really devils... and without men our lives are definately dull...

    Let me give an example from one of my previous relationships...

    I used to have a bf (lets call him, A) who treats me very nice... he was so nice that if i ask him to sit, he will sit... i ask him to shut up, he will just shut up... yes, i know.. i was being a mean bitch... but its true you know.. they say if u found someone who loves you so much and listens to you very much, you will tend to be over board in that particular relationship and turn bitchy... and then i left my bf A for a new bf B... This bf B of mine was the total opposite of bf A... B is the type that is more dominant... This time around, when he ask me to sit, i will just sit and wouldnt move a bit that kind of relationship... when i knew B, he was a womanizer, a very sweet talker and every women in college definately have their eyes on him... he knows what to do and say to get you fall head over hells with him even though u know it very clearly that he is just playing and using you.. i was chosen to be his victim but then i just couldnt resist playing along as well...

    we became an item just after 3 weeks... that was how fast he got me.. what to do, he really has his charms... I was with him for almost 6 years... My first 3 years with him was hell... Our first year together, he was still womanizing.. wouldnt let me know what he is doing, being so secretive and all... 2nd n 3rd year.. we always fight for small little reason.. he would scold me to the point like no one would ever scold someone like that... and to be honest, my parents also wouldnt treat me like that... when he gets mad, its disaster...he would throw tantrums and there was a few times he broke his cupboard by punching it... i was very afraid of him... i am not allowed to have guy friends or talk to any guy at all.. On our third year, i had to leave to further my studies in Australia... that is when i turned and learned to be more independent as a girl... we had long distance relationship for 2 years... and of course, many fights and quarrels in between.. he was so happy when i finally left for Aust and i was feeling very relieved to finally leave to Aust... Our relationship hit rock bottom when we were on our third year... but i dont understand y we did not break up.... After 2 years of long distance, i was very sick of it... cause im the type that needed someone to be with me shower me with love and attention... not someone who is always giving me problems... But during our 2 years long distance, he began to fall in love with me... He had never cheated on me while i was in aust for that 2 years... he talked about marriage and kids which we have never talked about it before... I had to let him go when i knew he serious... and as i had expected, he goes berzerk when i said i wanted a break up.. threaten me with loads of shit and nonsense...

    But i guess i was wrong for prolonging the relationship until 5 years after... i should have break it up with him when i first went to aust... But i finally broke free from him after 1 year of trying to break up and all the nonsense...

    Now, im a very happy relationship for the first time in my life... cause for the first time in my life, i actually had an equal relationship from my current bf who now loves me as much as i love him... i guess its the karma that i needed after suffering 5 years with B.

    Well, my point of telling you my relationship stories is that.. yes, girls always tend to fall in love with the meanie... and tend to break hearts of nice guys... Like my bf B... when he was a meanie, i was still very much in love with him..totally blinded with love even though he was being a big asshole... when he finally fall in love with me, starting to treat me right, being nice and all... i left him... which i know i've hurt him alot cause he has never fall in love with any of his gfs before considering he has at least 2 dozens of gfs before me... therefore, im the first girl he actually fell in love with... sighh... thats y, being nice brings you nowhere...

    My relationship with B has taught me alot of things... thats y i agree with you nicole, life without a guy is much less interesting... if i had never been with B, i would not have learnt how asshole and how a man would turn 360 degrees when they finally fall in love... and all the mind games B has been playing with me for that 5 years, i wouldnt be as smart as i am today... i would still be a naive innocent girl like before i was with B...

    So, i guess we women and men need each other to educate each other to be more serious in things as you'll learn lots of new stuff in every relationship... Like my love life, by me going through like this, it has definately turned me in an adult and live in reality... im not as naive and innocent as before anymore... and also to make me realise.. love is not only about i love you and you love me only... it involves and requires more than love to make a relationship work and last...

    janesnj@hotmail.com

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  41. Be yourself, stop being pretentious.

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  42. Living on earth means taking advantage. Whether its for a guy to look like an absolute pimp, or a girl to look like the owner of a very obedient dog.

    Men CANT live without women, and women cant live without men.

    Men do no do chores, which eventually leads to a maid, and maids are women. Men appear to be strong, but are in fact weaklings that love to be praised, and if men were to rely on men, which man would put down his face and say that another guy is better than him?

    Women today are strong, powerful, with minds that turn faster than computers, but women, love to be comforted, love to be pampered, love to be loved, and unless you're a lesbian, I dont think any woman would go out hugging other random women just to prove that we do not need men to live, or would you?

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  43. Are you and Kenny a couple? Looks very compatible!

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  44. Women. I simply cannot fathom why we men do not understand how much we need them in our lives. I wonder if we men understood just how much a woman enhances, nurtures, stimulates, develops, and changes our wayward animal maleness, would we be so willing to abandon our mates by betraying them sexually?

    Let's face it. We men are pigs. We are filthy goats. We usually have only one thing on our minds (do I even need to go there?). We are so one-track minded that it is a wonder we manage to ever get by in life. In fact, if one were to critically examine what's going on in the world today, mainly run by men, we shouldn't be surprised by the state the world is in.

    Men are screwing up...no.. have screwed up the world, have we not?


    As a member in good standing of the male race, let me go on record by saying that when left to my own devices, I am a screw up. Enthralled with myself, quite enchanted with my abilities, I go on witch-hunts, tirades, diatribes, and obsessions in my writing. Frankly, I need to run my ideas by a good woman first before I hit "send." When I am left on my own, I end up messing up.

    My partner. I hold her in the highest regard. I love this woman for so many reasons and on so many levels. One of the many reasons is that she sets me straight.

    She is more patient than Job with me, and waits for me. She waits until I have hanged myself with my ill-thought-out strategies, plans, and writings. She is waiting when I come to her, blue in the face from emotional strangulation.

    Gently, patiently, and most wisely, this woman, my Evelyn, sets me back on the right path. How did I ever live without this woman?

    We have a friend, a woman pal, and a sister of our souls, who also sets me straight. And she does it in such a way that humbles me into seeing how much I need correction.

    Thank God for women.

    grotesque_pale@yahoo.com

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  45. Well... women still need men as well as men need us women. There's always a reason why both men and women exist in this world... It is mainly not just for reproduction though...It is for all of us to discover what true loves really mean... no offense to those who love the same sex... i'm saying in the general terms.It is never easy to find someone who would tolerate with you and stay with you for the rest of your lives. We women need men to comfort us when we're sad and cheer us up.When someone you love comforts you is definitely different from your friends or people of the same sex to comfort you, no? There's an unusual feeling whenever a guy steps into a girl's life. This feelings can never be experienced with friends or people from the same sex.Same goes for men. Men can still help women in their lives in many ways... and women too can still help men... so conclusion both sex still need each other to make this a better world...

    All men can do household chores nowadays but that doesn't mean they like it or good at it... Women are intelligent and capable nowadays too but they still lack of strength to carry heavy stuffs or do rough work...so with the two helping each other out...the women can do the household chores as it is in their blood...and in return the men take cares of all other heavy and rough work...fair? People may disagree with my opinion but hey...that's the way i see it...again... no offense pls as this is just based merely on my opinion.

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  46. oh 4got my email is ceres5000@gmail.com

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  47. btw nicole, have u seen The Holiday? Though it's only a movie, but i find some part of that movie is like real life.

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  48. Whoops! Din't leave email add!
    kim_my_82@yahoo.com

    Sorry! :P

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  49. i am a 55 year old man, a husband and father of not one but four beautiful daughters.Most of my male colleagues seem to think that it is a living tragedy living with not one but FIVE women in the house. Although life can be hellish at times with those constant unnecessary nagging and mood-swings, i still love the women in my house regardless. Reason being -}We balance each other strengths and weaknesses.

    when muscle and strength is needed, i repair broken pipes, paint the house, carry 20 shopping bags, climb the tall rambutan tree to save the cat, swap my credit cards for over-priced bags and clothes(yes, swapping need strength and courage!) plus throw the rubbish everyday too!

    when ultra girl-power is needed,i get clean clothes to wear and good food to eat (yes, it is THAT easy to please men!)

    Hence after 5 years in the dating scene and 30 years of marriage later, i couldnt think of a better anwer than men and women need each other becaue they COMPLETE and COMPLEMENT one another.

    Afterall, Hugo BOss seemed to agree with this, if not they wouldnt have the HIM and HER new perfume line ey? *grin*

    keong_lee@yahoo.com

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  50. yea.. angels will forever and always fall for the devils because thats just how life is..

    and devils are so irresistable

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  51. There is no such thing as female equality nor a superior gender. Both gender has its own flaws and we have to look pass it to co-exist together.

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  52. God created man and God created woman from a rib of the man.

    Man are created for tasks while woman is created for relationship with man.

    Man work for the woman and woman stays with the man..

    In other words, we need each other. If we don't why God created two different species? Might as well create man alone and let him enjoy God's creation.

    Think about it

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  53. Why the women always lie to the men? Yes, they literally need the men, occasionally at least. But when we need them, they will just ignore us for plenty of reasons. It is so unfair as the girls always have the better treat but the guys only get the trick eventually. They need us instead of want us. But we love them in lieu of like them. We are blamed for not caring enough, not faithful, no guts, no money and et cetera. One question for the women, do we ever blame you all for being not punctual, materialistic, arrogant and no respect? We have no chance to voice up as whenever we do, it's the time we got dumped. Women are just too selfish sometimes, and yet they never change. Hence, the guys are too afraid to stand for themselves, yes, we have no guts. The confidence in men is sinking somehow. As these type of girls are increasing gradually, the men are no longer have faith on them. An uncertainty still in my mind, they really need us for what we are? It's still a guess in my heart. But still need to show my gratitude to the girls, for bringing so much of challenges to my life. To the girls: Tell us what you desire the most.

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  54. is there any rule that says a person can only comment once? :)) CHeers and good luck all...

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  55. my own opinion, to summarize.

    men need women as so vice versa to satisfy each other's needs.

    for example, we need each other to make the world better. (keep population going)

    We need each other..

    so that women can order men around.. (women still?)

    so that men can just say to a stranger "that's my hot-mama wife" when we bring them to the beach in bikini (while she is swimming and me reading book)

    so that writers can write about "the women behind a millionaire"..

    so that women don't always go broke but men does..

    so that when we are broke, we got the women to cook, saving the eat out cost..

    so that men can share gossips about "that" hot women

    so that women can talk about men they are checking out

    so that magazine like men's health, FHM, UNO and of course Playboy don't go out of business..

    so that clubs can attract mens with "ladies night" to have more business...

    so that God's creation don't go wasted..

    so to make sure HUGO got business from this line of product..

    It's just every God's universal creation. To create mankind. The Ying & Yang.

    yapthomas@gmail.com

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  56. 1. They can change the light bulb, repair the leaking pipe, help us to change flat tires.....I know women can do that too, but still, I think it's more approprite to see men doing all those.

    2. Bear hugs from men!!! I just couldn't resist it! It's feels better than kisses or a pat on the head.

    3. The satisfaction we will get while looking them eating the food prepared by us. They will say it's good even tough we know deeply in our heart that the dishes are too salty.

    4. Men are way better than pillows when watching horror movies.

    5. Men are more honest and straight forward than women. At least they will tell you the truth if you want to listen.

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  57. Well I know you wrote this 2+ years ago and maybe since then something did change, I don't know. Yet I would like to add my two cents worth to this list of comments. Personally I have grown to an understanding that it isn't so much that a man needs a woman or vice-versa but rather that we need companionship. True companionship is hard to come by. I mean if you're just out for sexual gratification then yes you can flush companionship down the next toilet you come across but if someone seeks something more, then sex on its own doesn't quite cut it.
    Indeed, some may argue that usually any meaningful relationship normally commences from attraction, which does play a part in the building of a relationship. Yet, once the looks are made to get out of the way it's then a need for companionship that consolidates a relationship and leads a couple to look further into the future.

    There I said it, however thanks for the blog it did get my thoughts rolling.

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