我很爱过一个人，很爱很爱。不指明道姓，他是一位新加坡人。
一切的结束，就从今天开始。一切的开始，却已是那么遥远。
我以为我们会有一个未来，那么幼稚的以为，一切能那么顺利。可是我发现，人没有完美的。两个脾气相同的人，根本不能在一起。冲突来了，就是伤痛。伤痛过后，却没有原谅；最后只会导致泪滴，和遗憾。
我至今认为爱情没对错，只有不体谅，不谅解。无论被一个人多伤，爱他，就要学会原谅。我觉得我竟然能做到这一点，为何却不能被同以对待。这或许就是我的遗憾。
我听说过，一个人这一生，会遇到三种人。第一，是我最爱的人；第二，是最爱我的人；第三，是终生相许的人，可都不是双方最爱的人。我很欣慰，我遇到了第一种人；却很无奈我不是他的最爱。我不知，今生何时我才能遇到第二以及第三种人。
算我迟钝，或许那些人已经出现；可我现在，只想好好的活在当下。这人生是那么的漫长，同时也很短暂。我想好好地走完这人生，尽情去品尝它的精华；同时也要掌握每一分每一秒，因为你不知你何时会失去身边的人和机会。
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15 kissed Nicole
yup..its better to marry someone who loves u more than u love him
ReplyDeletebut yeah its hard for both sides to be each other's greatest love
people say to be married to ur first love is god's special gift to u
unfortunately not many people has that gift
anyway dun be too sad girl..ur so pretty and nice there will be plenty of others out there for u
and someday u'll realise u dun love him so much anymore..trust me ;)
may you meet 3 soon
yup..its better to marry someone who loves u more than u love him
ReplyDeletebut yeah its hard for both sides to be each other's greatest love
people say to be married to ur first love is god's special gift to u
unfortunately not many people has that gift
anyway dun be too sad girl..ur so pretty and nice there will be plenty of others out there for u
and someday u'll realise u dun love him so much anymore..trust me ;)
may you meet 3 soon
gosh...i need to use google translation only understand what you are saying. hmmm...no comments on that. same old sentence..."if it's yours it will always be yours, if it's not, it won't be yours afterall..."
ReplyDelete别难过。还是有很多很好的男生在外面。。。。
ReplyDeleteI don't agree with what you said, well at least the parts that I could make out. Love is not something as delicate as many think it to be. If you love someone, you don't give up, nevermind the temperment or any other factors. You do what you must in order for that person to realize what they have. You don't want to wake up one day and think of all the "should of's, could of's, and would of's". The road to hell is paved with the cobblestones of regret. If he does not appreciate you, you beat some sense into him until he realizes what a treasure he really has. Love is a choice, if you've chosen it and if he doesn't, then he's the fool and you would realize that.
ReplyDeletegood luck.
-M
well as i have always said b4 this, attraction isn't a choice :) get wat i mean?
ReplyDeleteattraction simply signals interest. Whether you pursue that interest or not is the choice.
ReplyDelete-M
Dear Princess,
ReplyDeleteYou will have a BEAUTIFUL LIFE :), I'm sure of that.
Forgiving will take time... but it sure feels 'good' when u do forgive someone. Someone who had really hurt u in some way.
Just to share my little experience. Recently, I did forgive someone that I have been running away from for 3 yrs. One was my so called 'brother(xiong di)'and one was someone I loved the most( well, at least that very moment). I thought she was the girl I'd loved most, but turns out, I just can't be that certain afterall. Meeting and being in love again would create new memories while the old would just be set aside; and suddenly you will just forget about him/her. So being optimistic and believe that you will be in love again is the beauty of it.
Anyway... long story short, its all about 'betrayal' and drama when we were still 'young'.
Never thought that I would really 'talk' to them again; be close again; but when I do forgive... things did not turn out tt bad afterall ;)... really
It will be a forever debate for which kinda person suits you best. I mean there's always pros and cons in a person.
You may give in to everything to the person you loved most; but he might not love you as much as you did expected.
Similarly, the person who loved u to the max, giving all in and be there for u... might not recieve the same back too.
Guess that's the reason why ppl said," just love and care about someone 'wholeheartedly', and dun be too upset or be too dishearted if he/she did not give the same amount back." Besides, there is no way we can calculate or measure love :)
So who will walk till the very end with u... I hope, your prince charming would be someone, who love you dearly and you'd love him over time too... just to balance both sides; and never regret about your decision. Ups and downs compliment each other, be optimistic and u will have a great life... my princess =)
that last part was so sweet I think I threw up in my mouth a little bit =P
ReplyDeleteHey Nicole, time can heal all wounds, even though it leaves a scar. hope your wound can heal a little bit faster.
ReplyDeleteI cannot even make out half of what you were writing initially but with a translator, which sucks anyway, I managed to grasp the meaning of it but not totally.
ReplyDeletealdrin, you sound like david deangelo..
ReplyDeleteanother guy trying to be smart, u r not (and you know it)
why cant all the nice single ppl get together and get married, nobody would get hurt
ReplyDeletesometimes it really isnt up to u, no matter how hard u try, if ur other half doesnt reciprocate or has given up..deres no way things are goin to work out either
跟我同一天告一段落也.....
ReplyDelete4/3...我正式不再找我追了两年多，很爱恨爱的女生...
今天正正式式告一段落...庆幸我没有在沉迷下去..
What a coincidence....
读这一页,脑海里浮现一首歌.
ReplyDeletehttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8n6dgsGMiFw
Love happens just once, the rest is just life.....
More on the song here (not my blog tho):
http://sharmaaman.blogspot.com/2007/01/feeling-expressed-magically-truely.html
~~~边玩边学~~~