tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post2373692715384381331..comments2024-03-12T21:27:09.851+08:00Comments on Nicolekiss - Travel & Lifestyle Blogger : Battle is lostNicolehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10836980999308116832noreply@blogger.comBlogger77125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-27004377045998282522007-11-21T01:53:00.000+08:002007-11-21T01:53:00.000+08:00Oh, and if she really did give the baby for adopti...Oh, and if she really did give the baby for adoption and start anew, she can say "suck on that bitches!" to her bloody husband and XXX when they finally realised they cant actually control and mistreat her like that for the rest of her life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-66546514241204556572007-11-21T01:36:00.000+08:002007-11-21T01:36:00.000+08:00This could have been avoided if she went for an a...This could have been avoided if she went for an abortion the minute she found out she was pregnant and never chose to marry that idiot like what a lot of people are doing now. A lot get married just because of the baby when they're still not even prepared for marriage and parenthood. At the end of the day, it won't benefit anyone, not even the child. In fact, the child might be subjected to abuse and neglect especially in your friends case because, well, just look at how her mum-in-law and husband are like. <BR/><BR/>Six months on, its too risky for an abortion so, I think if I were your friend, once the baby's delivered, I'll give it up for adoption. Give it a proper loving home that your friend can never provide that other longing couples can. It's fair because she said it herself that she can't give warmth and a proper family for her child. Your friend too can start anew since she won't be tied down to the child and her weird in laws. <BR/><BR/>She can still do something about this if she really wants to as long as she does not let her in-laws and her own emotions cloud her judgments and sensibility. I wont feel sorry for her if she doesnt do something about her own shit life and just let herself drown in her own hell.<BR/><BR/>All the best to your friend!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-22708098926787881362007-11-20T02:42:00.000+08:002007-11-20T02:42:00.000+08:00The battle is not lost.Winners don't quit.Quitters...The battle is not lost.<BR/>Winners don't quit.<BR/>Quitters don't win.<BR/>If even you quit on her, then I'll agree with you.<BR/>But if you stand firm and not give up on her, there's still a chance there for her to have a better life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-87976792246262404922007-11-19T22:46:00.000+08:002007-11-19T22:46:00.000+08:00http://www.wao.org.my/services.htmWomen's Aid Orga...http://www.wao.org.my/services.htm<BR/><BR/><BR/>Women's Aid Organisation<BR/>Pertubuhan Pertolongan Wanita<BR/>P.O. Box 493 Jalan Sultan<BR/>46760 Petaling Jaya<BR/>Selangor Darul Ehsan<BR/>Malaysia.<BR/>Tel. +60 3 7956 3488<BR/>Fax. +60 3 7956 3237Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-82508294412622429502007-11-19T22:38:00.000+08:002007-11-19T22:38:00.000+08:00Dear Nicole,Perhaps you can refer your friend to W...Dear Nicole,<BR/><BR/>Perhaps you can refer your friend to WAO ... just if they can help her. She doesn't deserve to be treated in such way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-64175002297533300562007-11-17T21:12:00.000+08:002007-11-17T21:12:00.000+08:00Yes we are with you, Nicole's friend. Do not be af...Yes we are with you, Nicole's friend. Do not be afraid... Be strong.iamthewitchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04077726770151351682noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-17668138997107628542007-11-17T20:33:00.000+08:002007-11-17T20:33:00.000+08:00we shall help her ! she's just in trouble and did ...we shall help her ! she's just in trouble and did not know how to get out of the mess ! i'm so sad to know that this kind of thing is still happening , nicole , it is a good thing to let us all know about this because she'll never be alone now ! She's a helpless lady out there that need helps very much . Why shall she suffer for such things ? May god bless her and solve her misery.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-29876776528348975742007-11-17T16:04:00.000+08:002007-11-17T16:04:00.000+08:00Dear jyhmin,I strongly disagree with wat u have st...Dear jyhmin,<BR/>I strongly disagree with wat u have stated here :"u bring God into every stupid matter in life and u will end up as disapointed as shit.."<BR/><BR/>If u have faith n believe, you shall not be disappointed. For christian we may say we seek God, for other religion we may seek their own God, fortune teller, horoscope or whatsoever. But what we want here is for the best of Nicole's friend.<BR/><BR/>Dear Nicole's friend,<BR/>Whatever decision you made whether is it fair or unfair, you know best. I'm truly honored by your decision to honor you parents even if you have to go through suffering. Just a word of encouragement (even if you are not christian) hope you will be blessed by it.<BR/><BR/>1 Peter 3:8-17<BR/><BR/>"Finally, all of you, live in harmony with one another, be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble. Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing. For, 'Whoever would love life and see good days must keep his tongue from evil and his lips from deceitful speech. He must turn from from evil and do good; he must seek peace and pursue it. For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous and his ears are attentive to their prayer, but face of the Lord is against those who do evil.' Who is going to harm you if you are eager to do good? But even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed. 'Do not fear what they fear, do not be frightened.' But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you togive the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, keeping clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behaviour in Christ may be ashamed of their slander. It is better, if it is God's will, to suffer for doing good than for doing evil."<BR/><BR/>To assured you, you may seems to lost the battle, but you have won victoriously because after this, nothing can hold you down anymore. you will turn out to be a stronger woman.<BR/><BR/>God sees your misery.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-90323030453186673782007-11-17T13:43:00.000+08:002007-11-17T13:43:00.000+08:00well, from my opinion Piggy lass =P, it isn't that...well, from my opinion Piggy lass =P, it isn't that they don't see her problem..but i feel parents of that generation feels it is only correct that the gurl lives together with the guy..<BR/>it doesn't matter WHERE exactly they are living...but as long as they are together?<BR/><BR/>and to 'annonymous' who keep on mentioning Gawd and Gawd..<BR/>well, imagine yourself in that situation and START TO PRAY!!!<BR/>*u bring God into every stupid matter in life and u will end up as disapointed as shit..JyhMinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15469463540976347529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-31597866399619577672007-11-17T11:18:00.000+08:002007-11-17T11:18:00.000+08:00Hmm.....it's sad especially when your own family m...Hmm.....it's sad especially when your own family members can't see the whole picture here. Don't think they understand what she is going through. I understand that parents want the best for their children, especially want them to be happy. But i don't think she's happy. She should try to get help from authorities.Miss Piggy Lasshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00040409055387803185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-35612136477155856692007-11-17T09:51:00.000+08:002007-11-17T09:51:00.000+08:00Dear Nicole's Fren,If ur xxx is a lion, learn to b...Dear Nicole's Fren,<BR/><BR/>If ur xxx is a lion, learn to be a lion tamer...<BR/><BR/>The lion can onli grow weaker by the day...<BR/><BR/>Lion Tamer too...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-25282321654327139712007-11-17T07:56:00.000+08:002007-11-17T07:56:00.000+08:00To all those ppl who commented up there... do you ...To all those ppl who commented up there... do you think it is so easy to work things out? If it was, she wouldn't be in this situation now. Threaten to burn her house down? Once a violent man, always violent. Once an abuser, iether physically or mentally, always an abuser. <BR/><BR/>I really don't think this was the best option at all. She will be putting up with this for life. If for no one else, she should do it for her unborn baby. Who knows whether xxx would like the child!? And what if the baby is already hurt because of the conditions she has gone through whilst pregnant...<BR/><BR/>It must be really hard for her. But I really don't understand all the ppl saying that this conclusion is the best option or inevitable. If he / xxx feels taht they were embarassed by this incident, it will only get worse. xxx sounds like a vindictive bitch.Lin-lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14519650111692193629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-9127426999655648692007-11-17T07:07:00.000+08:002007-11-17T07:07:00.000+08:00marriage is indeed unlike a relationship. Unfortu...marriage is indeed unlike a relationship. Unfortunately its not something as simple as walking away with the many attachments it brings.<BR/>Let it be a reminder to all of us.<BR/><BR/>We pray for your friend and respect your friend circumstances. She will come out stronger.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-74831567032743604682007-11-17T01:20:00.000+08:002007-11-17T01:20:00.000+08:00Well, Its never too late to start over again ?All ...Well, Its never too late to start over again ?<BR/><BR/>All things are possible rite ? Its all in the mind ?<BR/><BR/>I know its easier said than done, but heck, you can rebuild life, and live it the way you want it to be.<BR/><BR/>Success is in your own hands.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-72478938763393095622007-11-16T20:03:00.000+08:002007-11-16T20:03:00.000+08:00whisperer:I noe la, just be very careful handling ...whisperer:<BR/><BR/>I noe la, just be very careful handling these sensitive issues mah, constipation n god don't sound so well together ma~<BR/><BR/>Hope u solve ur prob soon~<BR/><BR/>Smooth Motion (^_^)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-84320861934682682342007-11-16T19:18:00.000+08:002007-11-16T19:18:00.000+08:00We gotta preach at the right place and in the righ...We gotta preach at the right place and in the right context. Theological issues has been going on for centuries. Don't think any solution can come out from here<BR/><BR/>smooth motion,<BR/>damn it, didn't i say i want a solution?<BR/>you are not helping at all :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-57949441722015970302007-11-16T19:13:00.000+08:002007-11-16T19:13:00.000+08:00how can she tolerate all these abuse?isnt there a ...how can she tolerate all these abuse?<BR/><BR/>isnt there a way for her to get out of it...<BR/><BR/>it sadden's me to see this kind of torturing..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-19410740349445294322007-11-16T19:08:00.000+08:002007-11-16T19:08:00.000+08:00whisperer:U can keep ur constipation, if u r happy...whisperer:<BR/><BR/>U can keep ur constipation, if u r happy with u constipation, u can have a series of them...<BR/><BR/>Smooth MotionAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-26304204874991983422007-11-16T18:59:00.000+08:002007-11-16T18:59:00.000+08:00Anon 16/11/07 11:50 AM:"Seek God la. Don't put you...Anon 16/11/07 11:50 AM:<BR/><BR/>"Seek God la. Don't put your hope in man. All of us ain't perfect. Only God is."<BR/><BR/>Obvious u have never read the bible, don't know anything about god's teaching.<BR/><BR/>1. God created man and woman, both are in need of each other~<BR/><BR/>2. Remember the parable Jadas betray Jesus? Jesus forgives. The soldier who slapped Jesus? Jesus lets him slapped the otherside oso. Remember when Jesus die on the cross? What did he say? "Forgive them for they noe not what they do."<BR/><BR/>3. I kinda feel that u r using God's name invain, please have more respect of the name please~<BR/><BR/>4. This is the best chance for both the husband and wife to forgive each other and learn, not to destroy each other~<BR/><BR/><BR/>Angle on EarthAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-15338263016934468212007-11-16T18:51:00.000+08:002007-11-16T18:51:00.000+08:00anon (5:48 PM)God got solution for my constipation...anon (5:48 PM)<BR/>God got solution for my constipation or not? I need it right now!<BR/><BR/>There is no end to theological debate. Lets leave it sacred as it is. Tarnishing of god in political issues should be a good lesson for all already.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-10287817996338646222007-11-16T17:48:00.000+08:002007-11-16T17:48:00.000+08:00whisperer (1.21pm)#1 : The fact that God is God gi...whisperer (1.21pm)<BR/><BR/>#1 : The fact that God is God gives Him the right to question us up down left right. He created us, therefore He can choose to do what He likes to us. Can the creation ask the Creator "Why did You create me?" Can the clay ask the potter the purpose of its' existence? Certainly not. God created us for a reason and for a purpose set by Him. We only need to find out what is that purpose.<BR/><BR/><BR/>#2 : No one knows the future except God. He lives in eternity. We are bounded by time, hence we can never know the future. So, we will also never know what will God ask us at the end of the day. What matters to Him is to be on His side at the end of the day.<BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>People, <BR/><BR/>God will not give us or put us in a situation beyond what we can bear. All we need to do is to put our trust, hope and faith in Him for He will provide a way out of whatever the situation you are in.<BR/><BR/>Cheers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-60109734790439830382007-11-16T15:55:00.001+08:002007-11-16T15:55:00.001+08:00Hope she fight back this time...If not...leaving t...Hope she fight back this time...<BR/>If not...leaving the guy 4eva is the best choice..<BR/>It's better this way than suffer this kind of treatment for the rest of her life...<BR/><BR/>I believe she is strong enough to bring up the kid herself & definitely...deserve a better one..much better one..at least one with "real balls" & truly luv her & will treat her like a human, a lady, a wife....<BR/><BR/>Tell ur fren to live strong!We can live without MEN! There are many good things out there!No point sacrificing life and fun for this kind of parrot ball-less guy....no worth it at all!<BR/><BR/>Gambatte!Kura Princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11666531116540297517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-27284022068948676122007-11-16T15:55:00.000+08:002007-11-16T15:55:00.000+08:00Hope she fight back this time...If not...leaving t...Hope she fight back this time...<BR/>If not...leaving the guy 4eva is the best choice..<BR/>It's better this way than suffer this kind of treatment for the rest of her life...<BR/><BR/>I believe she is strong enough to bring up the kid herself & definitely...deserve a better one..much better one..at least one with "real balls" & truly luv her & will treat her like a human, a lady, a wife....<BR/><BR/>Tell ur fren to live strong!We can live without MEN! There are many good things out there!No point sacrificing life and fun for this kind of parrot ball-less guy....no worth it at all!<BR/><BR/>Gambatte!Kura Princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11666531116540297517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-78110204438179266822007-11-16T15:06:00.000+08:002007-11-16T15:06:00.000+08:00It's tough on the friend, but it's heartbreaking a...It's tough on the friend, but it's heartbreaking and exhausting to be there for her constantly as well. <BR/><BR/>Chin up, NicoleVandalinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00420944294381722833noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35426498.post-75855285336871433262007-11-16T13:21:00.000+08:002007-11-16T13:21:00.000+08:00anon (11:50 AM)What if when the day comes and god ...anon (11:50 AM)<BR/>What if when the day comes and god says; "You disappoint me coz you never try hard enough and, you over used my name to bulldoze your own opinions"?<BR/><BR/>No offense. Just a hypothetical question.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com